Does the "dating/affairs" act as a distraction to make it easier for the WAS during a D. As much as I'd like to date my heart just wouldn't be in it. I certainly couldn't date just to date. I don't want to hurt anyone that could actually be interested in me.

Although I'd love to get my confidence back by dating....... Gosh I'm so torn on what to do and how to treat W until we can physically separate.

The wave and smile technique worked until I found out she is now dating.... Ahhhh what to do????

M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA