I forgot to mention, the A was with the last separation, she was very obvious about it, wasnt hard to figure out. This go round, I dont believe there is one now, but I am not letting my guard down. My wife is a beautiful woman and I am sure there is some idiot out there telling her everything she wants to here. She is a person who needs the constant attention, which has made me realize, If i get tired trying to give it to her constantly, do I really want to stay in this M either? I love her, but a M cannot strive on love alone, I am tired.