The saga continues

[OfficerInNeed]

Now here is the thing. W is so set on starting a family and I am set on building a healthy loving R/M. I cannot imagine bringing a child into a situation or state our marriage is currently in.

But yet, you have unprotected intercourse with her.


Oy, vey.


Puppy

Yes . It just happened (the love making part). W said and I quote (getting a little personal here) "Just let it happen"

W is set on starting a family. She truly wants 'this' to be reality. I tried to speak logic. I certainly wanted/still want to seek relationship help W agreed but has not got on board with anything yet. I also told W if we were going to start family in the near future it would be best we go to parenting classes, W agreed and she actually did a little research for such programs in our area but nothing more.

I always had excuses as to why we could not have children in the past while she wanted to. From school, work to finances I continues to tell her that now is not the time. It then got to a point where I started to use her physical appearance as an excuse not to have children (I became a terrible person). So when I tell her now that I want to just not right now she thinks of me as being OIN of the past.