I hear you, Puppy. That is the person I am in my dealing with everyone and I have a hard time not being that way with her. Even in dealing with my son's death, I have tried very hard to take that attitude that I should embrace and celebrate the years we had him, instead of focusing on the fact he is gone. It is a coping mechanism for me, but apparently not a good one.
Doesn't matter now, because there will be NO R talk until she broaches the subject after the A is over. Settling in for the long haul. Hell-bent seems right, but she wants nothing to do with any legal process being put in place. She doesn't want me to see attorney this week, or any time in the future. Confuses the hell out of me that she is so sure she is doing the right thing, but doesn't want a D. Also stated that she was leaving me as beneficiary of her Life Ins. policy and planned to keep it that way until she remarries, which she doubts will ever happen. Nice gesture, but why?
Last edited by lookin4support; 07/17/1008:15 PM.
M - 43 WAXW - 42 Married - 24 years Together - 25 years S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09 S - 22 Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night D-day - 9/17/10
