Need help and support

[LRT Land]

I've been with H 7 years. We have a DD5. A few days ago I received his lawyer letter saying he wants to end our M. I have been hopeful because he didn't actually file. I grabbed Divorce Remedy having read DB a few years ago. Our M has always been rocky. Lately, it was backburnered while we tried to get moved to our new house. Well, we moved - he sleeps downstairs, and now this.

I've been crying all day. We had a nice time last night with DD, which almost made it worse. I know I need to LRT and crying is not the answer but I can't seem to stop. It's worse when he is near.

Is it too late? I want us to go to counseling as our M does not a lot of work. It has been a SSM for a while - needs not being met for either of us. We are disconnected. Yet, I am not ready to give up. Apparently, he is.