Nothing wrong with wanting your house put together! Mine is like a living and breathing thing! It gets messy so fast with the four kids. Still trying to get them to see what doing one more step can do. lol. They try and that is the important thing. They will be gone so fast, the house will still be here.
Get your appliaces in where they belong. It will make you feel so much better. I don't know what will happen between you and your H but I hope you both can be open enough to say what your ultimate goal will be for your family. Hugs to you. If you stop by my thread you can see how I experienced betrayal via ice cream.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory