And no, I am pretty casual around the home, I just write forcefully...
I am not suggesting policing someone forever... But dazed wife is clearly wayward and beligerent here... And bets are 100 to 1 that she isn't educated about the dangers of facebook and online firting... She may not even CARE... She may be like QS' wife and LOOKING to hookup because she's miserable.
The thing is pup, once that initial hookup kicks in and they find someone to return their advances or someone hits on THEM... its VERY HARD to get the train to STOP RUNNING.
The likelihood of the risk becoming an issue is like 2% for your average home overall... BUT the IMPACT if the issue DOES come up is HUGE... And I can't even begin to assess the damage and cost to repair.
If you lose three years of your life to an affair like SeeingRed has.. How do you even ASSESS that cost?
THAT makes me panic... THAT I see something happening in someone's home that I KNOW can lead to bad stuff, and most newcommers here lack that experience, lack the education, have not developed the emotional capacity to assert marital boundaries when they are at risk...
In short, most people arriving here arne't prepared for the storm on the horizon of thier post. I just see the same stuff happening over and over again.
Dazed here is gonig to go soft on her and she is going to take that a tacit concent to push harder on facebook. He's goign to find out AFTER she's hooked up with someone onlnine. Then he's going to be hesitant about confronting her cause he doens't want to make her mad, etc. It's the same story all the time here...
