Anything wrong with going out, having fun, learning to make conversation and flirt again? Careful not to take advantage ( I feel bad for guys feeling like "if it is a date, I have to pay for it!" cause that will add up quick!)
That is sweet, Avermont, but just remember that if we offer and they say no, that is their choice! And you can ask them out and pay for it, right?
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Careful to be honest: not ready for a deep R yet.
sounds good....
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Is dating OK even if you aren't ready for an R?
Well I am thinking YES but what if you really like someone and wasn't expecting it? Like "accidentally" fall for him? This is always a risk!
I think if you keep your head straight it can be fun, ego boost, and just over all practice, right?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
