Yes, but I can monitor it, and I'd probably be uncomfortable if I couldn't.
Puppy
But you are assuming pup that the facebook interaction will be restricted to facebook... It can easily lead to secret messages you don't know are going on... And then you are screwed
You worry too much. No way to go thru life. I don't want to have to control my wife for the rest of our life together. I have a few different "verify" intel channels in place, and I check them from time to time. Nothing has ever led to anything I needed to be concerned about.
Here's the thing, Allen. Even though I can agree with just about every INDIVIDUAL thing you said (and there are a few I disagree with, but for the sake of argument let's say they're all true). I still don't to project the SUM TOTAL of all of that concern/angst/fear/controlling/jealousy to my wife, as it KILLS attraction. I'm aiming more for fun/confident/strong/leading/happy. Maybe it's just for the purposes of a good spirited debate here on the forum, I don't know, but the way you phrase your posts, and the level of apparent anxiety behind them (lots of ALL CAPS and such), just come across to me as the former.
I want to maintain the underlying BOUNDARIES of the former, while projecting the overall ATTITUDE of the latter ... if I can.
End of hijack for me, as -- like I said in my very first post on my thread -- we need to get back to what Dazed is asking on his thread.
