I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

Just a quick update...zoobrew called on Friday about 7 just as I was finishing dinner with my friend and was putting S in the car. He loved my kayaking idea (and the other one I came up with) and we were trying to figure out when to meet up next since he has kids next week etc. We were just briefly chatting because I had my friend with me and he was on his way to cheer up a buddy whose wife just left him. He asked about my day and I told him (mom and brother visited, went to visit my friend and go out to dinner, returning home and going out later). We had a hard time figuring out when to meet up but he said "we don't have to figure it out right now!" But he will be calling back later so we can figure out a time. I said I could get babysitting for S if need be and he said he could always rearrange his schedule with his exW if need be. Otherwise I won't see him until more than a week from now! We did chat a little about some other stuff--he asks a lot of questions!

My friend thinks he was trying to meet up with us because he was asking where I was going out. I didn't think so-- he was just curious. He did ask a couple of times...like where, what area... but HE WASN'T invited! lol! And I am sooo glad I didn't have him meet up with us because we went to a total meat market place! My friend (married but feeling like "an old has been" felt great to be hit on by men...from 23-30! She of course wasn't doing anything inappropriate and was not initiating any flirting!
We went to a dark, scummy bar after that was blasting monster rock music! blech! These were based on J's choices.

Now I am trying to keep my options open and consider other men as well...but am having difficulty because I just want to see zoobrew again! Still, I know I don't want to get too attached or too excited. But golly gee, I hope he likes me!