I am seriously contemplating just packing the car with myself and my son and going. Problem is I dont want to be sought for kidnapping if we just leave and I am not sure how the law looks at that.
You need to talk to your attorney. Do you have one?
Most areas have one or more attorney who are solely family law, and who are either solely, or who specialize in, men's rights and paternal custody cases. You need to see one right away, and get a consultation, to better understand your rights and responsibilities. You sound like a wonderful father, and your wife's lifestyle and potential drug use might be enough so that you can legally take your son back home and get near your support system, which I think is a WONDERFUL and wise idea.
