Keep in mind my W arrogantly said "Where I am and who I'm with is my own busines..."
Here is the exchange bw OM and his stbxw- OM: So my dad called me and told me something pretty funny, I guess he showed up at their house. he thinks that kristin is having an affair? And he seems to think its with me. Which is a load of [censored], kristin and I have never done anything. Kristin is staying in vernon with family I guess and he seems to think we are together. OM: At this point I wouldn't even have a reason to lie to you OM: Did her husband come to your work OM STBX : Sorry I've been busy at work OM STBX : Who's husband? OM: (my W name) OM: Did you go to my parents house yesterday OM STBX : Oh well some guy came in when I was doing a pedicure and told the girls about an affair and said to talk to ur dad OM: Yeah he went to my dads house OM: Psyco
This guy is priceless. To top it off, he then deleted her off his BBM.
I'll say this: he's got stones as big as a horse. In the face of an "I know where you are and what you're doing," the DEPTH of this deceitful exchange is just STUNNING, and gives us some clues about the man to tuck away for future reference. He's either stupid, scared sh*tless, or figured he was busted anyway so why not try to find out who-knows-what before you come back and face the firestorm. Not yet sure which.
