Yeah, not only was it boring, he smelt a bit too! Sorry that's mean, but I think it's a result of living a bit of a derelict life. Boy has he has fallen from great heights.
Okay, so no pursuing went out the window cos I texted WH and said that bub was a bit uncomfortable in her brace. He rang withing half an hour to talk about it. I wasn't needy but asked his advice and shared my concerns. He acted a bit like an older brother. I suppose that makes me the younger sister then. Okay, so that's not dead sexy!
He also texted tonight to see how her day went!
(All this is happening of course because I am not throwing stuff at him or telling him where to go jump.)
So I replied with a list of things I had dealt with & handled. Detailed but confident.
Then he says he would like to bring MIL over to see the baby tomorrow with him. (this would be the first time they have been together with the baby). I say that should be fine. He's then taking MIL on a car trip to the rainforest.
I would LOVE my WH to take me on a car trip!
Oh to get OUT of the house, chaperoned by a strapping gentlemen, who will carry my bags and the baby and open my car door for me and drive!
Worried that I am letting my WH walk away from this marriage and this country with everything he wanted : a peaceful-ending separation from me, a relationship with his child, and our child bearing his name (hyphenated with mine).
On the name front, got an email from WH's best friend who congratualted me on naming the baby and said 'all honour to you'.
If only he realised WH threatened to not sign the birth registry papers if she didn't have his name! (not that that is why I gave the hyphenated name - i had my own reasons). Should I say something or leave it? I think I'll leave it.
Oh and BIL moved out of my apartment today.. leaving just MIL.
