G, wasn't that other lady a bit of a nog?
The advice around here is generally interview counselors to make sure they are marriage friendly. I think the advice about finding 3 and letting him chose is good.
But does sound like a lotta work!

Yeah, like the idea of being cute and the odd flirt. Do it if you feel like it.

Any more news?

Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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