Don't fear the court...if she can do it so can you. The outcome is not up to her, it's for the judge to decide and your lawyers should help you prepare for what to expect in court. AND if both Ls are good chances are the case won't even go to court.
Goodluck on the house...I have a feeling you guys will all like it.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again