I read your post. I am really sorry things worked out like they did. I know you didn't get the original letter back, but if you can remember still, did you sit there thinking: ok, I'm not perfect. But this seems like a crock. What I mean is, sure some of it was probably dead on, but did it seem like a flimsy list of grievances on which to base such a momentous decision? That's how I have felt for months.
I have learned from you and can't thank you enough. Not sure if mine will turn out better, but I will definately TRY to avoid things that I might otherwise have not seen as wrong before finding this forum. Thank you also for importing the quotes you did. This site is too big to read everything. So I might never have seen them.
You mention that I'm a quick study. I think the previous EA primed me. I could never have done the things I'm trying to do then. That time was the most excruciatingly painfull thing I ever endured. This time, while also crushing, my emotions flashed over into anger more frequently and quicker. I don't think I would have fared as well as you had I tried all this the first time.
Cheers.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs