I wished you guys would help me instead of fighting. It doesn't matter, the doctor says she is bipolar. i know that she is not acting like herself. i guess I don't even know what to say about her right now. i sm so disappointed.
I am disappointed that i let myself think that she was coming back when she said she wanted to. maybe she will be here this weekend but i don't think that she is going to show. i don't know why she lied to me or why she changed her mind. I was looking forward to seeing her and treating her nice.
I looked up marriage licence in dallas. Sure enough it was there. She did get married. And she did have a flight right after it. I just can't believe she did it and why. Oh well, I have been crying over this for the last 3 weeks. Why did she text me and tell me her place should be with me and that she would be here this weekend and then have no way here. That she wanted to break up her marriage and come back and be a family and then not call me today. I agreed to it yesterday and then nothing. She told me not to call or text because she didn't want husband to know that she was talking to me. She said she wanted to handle it with him. Her mother told me to run as fast as I can that she is crazy, master manipulator and was using me. She said she didn't know what her plans was but they she wasnt coming back with their help. I would have went and got her. Hell, she really doesn't want to be with me even though she says she does. She wants me as a safety net. I do not know this to be true. I just feel it. I am screwing up my school work. I havent done any of it in 2 weeks. I cant focus, I think about this always. I just can't get it off my mind. I try to reason it out and just can't understand. She got married on Sat. got on a plane and had sex with me Tues and Wed, was put on a plane by parents Friday and went back to husband. Emotions suck. She called me Sunday telling me what a mistake she made and ask to come back this tuesday. I told her I would forgive. It is friday and I haven't heard a word from her. I don't get it.
Yes, she is a liar but why chase me when I quit calling? I didnt contact her for two days and she starts calling everyday? Why not leave me alone? I called her Friday that she left and she said to walk away, that she was happy now. So, I was going to. But why call me and when I don't answer call my work. You think she is confused or really just jacking with me?
She could be in a tough spot and in alot of pain. She might know you are the only one she could truly depend upon. She might still love you, and got herself in trouble that she tried to clean up by her "marriage". Should you deny her this?
I still think your last strategy was good, let her COME to you. She needs to be authentic.
Yes, I still haven't changed strategies. I erase her phone number from my phone everytime she calls and erase her texts.I know that I might be tempted to call in a weak moment so I make sure that I do not. I will not answer her phone call from Dallas, I will answer it from hometown because it means she came or it is my stepdaughter. She did get herself in trouble. Both parents and brothers told her she could not stay at thier houses anymore because of the pills. I want to let this go, I am just weak. Really weak today for some reason. Probably because I haven't eaten, I don't know, just a really bad day.
Yes, I still haven't changed strategies. I erase her phone number from my phone everytime she calls and erase her texts.I know that I might be tempted to call in a weak moment so I make sure that I do not. I will not answer her phone call from Dallas, I will answer it from hometown because it means she came or it is my stepdaughter. She did get herself in trouble. Both parents and brothers told her she could not stay at thier houses anymore because of the pills. I want to let this go, I am just weak. Really weak today for some reason. Probably because I haven't eaten, I don't know, just a really bad day.
From what you have been doing contact her in a week and let her know your intention.
