So for a healthy marriage QS you advocate a zero tolerance on flirting with the opposite sex for both spouses?
I am leaning that way...
I understand pup's point that likley less than 10% of people who flirt end up taking it into an EA. My problem is that is a SMALL RISK there... and I can't see enough GAIN to make it worth it.
Like speeding on the freeway... If you DO speed you MIGHT get home quicker... BUT you have to assess the RISK and decide if its worth it...
With flirting I just can't find ANY GOOD REASON to go outside the marriage to do it...
So, I say zero tolerance until someone can give me a half decent reason as to why one should risk that ten percent chance of it being taken too far...
(or whatever the % is... I just pulled ten out of my arse)
