So for the next 2 days W is at beach by herself. Yes....that was one of my Mr Fix-it ideas to give her some space. She loves the beach and we have not taken advantage of that over the years living so close. So she is there for 2 days for some alone time. Sunday after church I head up there with the 2 youngest kids to spend the night and then return Monday.

W has often said that she wants to go to the beach....stay late and not feel the pressure to rush home....have a picnic on the beach...play football with the kids on the beach until dark. So we are going to try and have some fun and do those things. Of course I am doing it for the kids so they can have a great time....if W wants to participate, all the better.

Just one of my 180 behaviors. Normally I would have been too uptight to relax and live in that moment. But not this time.

DMB

M:18 T:22
S 15
S 10
D9

Bomb Dropped 5/22/2010
EA with old college BF discovered and Exposed - 5/25/2010
MC begins 5/25/2010
EA contact cut off 5/28/2010
Current - DBing - 180's and joint MC sessions