Most of that is script Antonia.. all of us have heard it or a verison of it...

The "the affair is not the reason our marriage isn't working" is a CLASSIC... Its in the FIRST PARAGRAPH of Divorce Remedy in the FIRST CHAPTER...

MWD Starts DR OFF with that line... its a CLASSIC

All he's donig is putting up an emotional way to avoid his pain. That's all he's doing... You have to break that wall down... But you have to get the affair out of the way first.