Help with finding a lawyer

[marie2235]

Devastated and sadly giving up. I have done everything possible to save my marraige, and my husband is not interested - I have been told I dont love you - I don't even care anymore. He still wont admit to cheating - I know - he is an addict. I have exposed - done everything. An untimatum would result in him leaving, So - I think it is time to seek help. The last straw was finding out he has a joint bank account with the OW - or sould I say KID. After all, she is only 20. Not that he has ever admitted to cheating on me.

I need a good lawyer - becuase now he is using our money to buy thigns for this little tramp. I need proof - I only have what I heard on an automated bank system - I have no access to statements and things like that.


Does anyone know of somewhere I can go for help? Is there such a thing as free legal help? The courhouse in my area has a family services that ccn help fill out the papers for a do it yourself divorce, but they are not lawyers. This is not going to be pretty, I know. I only work PT - my husband has always been the breadwinner. I don't have anythign to pay a lawyer wtih. Advice?

Thanks!