Real quick – just learned that my W is back in touch with the guy she had the A with (via Facebook/Gmail – fake accounts that have no other “friends”)…we are currently on our vacation in Maui and I am struggling with how to handle this (confront now vs. waiting until we get home - not until next weekend, essentially).
Want to not blow up the vacation for everyone but am feeling like I’ll be proceeding with divorce/separation once we get back…they were previously not in touch (supposedly) since about April, and not sure when the re-contact happened (and the "why" behind it). She has been saying lately that she wanted another "solo" trip in the near future, and now seeing what that is about.
Has definitely not been a good trip – she’s been really moody and it feels like we’re back to the “old” marriage…feeling now like just throwing her to this guy and moving on…
Any ideas about how you would handle appreciated…thanks.
