I have stumbled upon OM email address. I have been looking for a sample of a letter to the OM and wondering if this is something I should consider sending. He was aware from the beginning that she is married and it hasn't had an impact on him to this point, so would a letter just be a chance for him to gloat that he has got the girl? I'm not sure if I even want to do it, or why. Any insight out there?


M - 43
WAXW - 42
Married - 24 years
Together - 25 years
S - 23 - passed away 10/17/09
S - 22
Bomb - PA - 6/23/10 - WAW moved in with OM same night
D-day - 9/17/10