you aren't being jerked around, you are being tested, and despite what she says about being tired of the drama, she loves it, she generates 99% of it herself,
use the script I provided, I knew she was going to flip flop like this, which is why I provided you with the script, she is going to bring it up again, I guarantee it, you aren't giving her anything to chase so she gets bored quickly, you're there standing by ready to say "YES! YES! YES!" and that's way too easy for her, let her work for it, display your value, otherwise continue complaining about being jerked in two different directions - lead in your direction and let her follow you otherwise let the "jerking" continue.
robx is dead on right with this. Two months ago I was right where you are, even further, as my W was saying she DID want to get back together, and consistently maintained that stance for over a month. I made it too easy for her, and now she's back to "wondering" about it. Listen to robx, follow his advice. I wish I had two months ago!
And yes, no matter what they say, they LOVE the drama. My W was oscillating between despair and elation all last year, and now she says "All I want is peace in my life." BS!
