NM- It's just so weird; I still don't even know what to think or feel. But it's okay for you to be enthusiastic!
I don't know about the cooking stuff. Hee hee. I didn't tell you that I know he didn't really like what I cooked the other night. It was super bland. It was my kind of food, but not his, and he was being polite. So... probably going to drop that. Not sustainable for me anyway! But hanging out with friends and being very active-- that I can and should do forever! And I will keep that up. Thanks for all your ideas and thoughts!
Oh and about a counselor. . . I don't know if he's thinking we'll go back to that other lady or try someone new. I don't know what to do about it. Try to take over or let him take the lead on the counseling. At this point I'm thinking of letting him take the lead.
Bluestar, hi! Reading up on my sitch must have taken forever if you went back to the old thread. Thanks!
I will look up the Relationship Rescue now. And you're right about being more flirtatious with him. Now that he met my condition, I will try to definitely be more present and a bit cute!
