I plan to expose my H's affair this weekend. I just need to be clear and succinct in what I want to say .

I will let you know what happens, but he will probably say that... "You just ruined any chance we had, I'm definitley going to get a divorce now. We are done"

The one thing is that his family loves me, but I do wonder if they would take his side. I know his best friend will take his side. Not sure about his boss and how he will respond, but he will blame me if the other woman loses her job as a result of the exposure. I can't worry about that.

I want to set the playing field a bit and take back some control over my life. He will be mad, but heck, he is already saying he is not coming back.

Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
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