Be strong. Confident. Care free. Dress and FEEL sexy. Control what you can which is yourself. Be the greener grass. Let your self-confidence radiate so he will be like a moth to a flame. Then make him beg for it.
No heavy R talk just have fun. If it does go there then validate. Focus on good communication. LISTEN/MIRROR/SYMPATHIZE/EMPATHIZE. Let him talk then repeat back to him what you COMPREHENDED.
Remember your GOOD ENOUGH, STRONG ENOUGH, and GOSH DARN IT YOUR F LIKES YOU