Thanks for feedback! I sent her condensed version of first paragraph (on the theory that the whole reason to still hide truth is that my H has convinced her no one knows and they can just start publically dating once D is filed . . . things H has told my daughter make me think this is how it's working . . . no hunny, OW is not my GF, but I will have a GF someday and it might be OW . . .) Yeah, vindictive . . . maybe . . . wish I could say there was no anger I'm holding.
I did include the last idea of "and has my H disclosed where he's been sleeping when he stays over - if he's lying this much, what makes u think hes honest with u".
Got a custody email right after from him which was clearly coached by a L or someone other than my H. Ran it by my lawyer, L thinks I should file. Reminded me it's not alwasy the end but that having a case filed helps me approach child custody and financial moves from a protected state.
