Thanks Sandi. I know that you guys care and I very much appreciate all the help you have given me. W seems to have finally broken it off with OM now, but she still seems quite uninterested in reconciliation. In fact, the day after she broke it off with OM, she was working on the divorce paperwork. She says she doesn't want him and she doesn't want me. So I have sort of accepted my fate. I'm really not worried about it anymore. I know that God has a plan for my life and I can move on.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.