Antonia,

I've grown more in the last two months than I have in the last two decades!

Here's what I know now that I didn't know when WS moved to basement in April:

*I CAN survive without him
*The best thing he brings to our marriage (right now) is his paycheck
*He IS replaceable
*There are LOTS of men out there who would snag me in a minute
*He's a f*cking idiot!

I would NEVER have said any of those things 6 months ago. But between this board and Larry (Bilotta's) course, I know that WS is only 1 fish in an ocean teaming with wildly attractive men.

Yes we've been handed a bunch of lemons by our WS. But whether you cut them and suck on them or squeeze them and make lemonade is entirely up to you...