WAW EA told her to leave

[koliver0821]

I know that this will be hard to handle but when someone is involved with a complicated decision, they will often waver back and forth. The stress of working through her issues and the future will undoubtedly cause strain on both of you.

The fact that she gets conflicted even a little is good news. it means she has noticed changes and you are making it more difficult for her to just move on. She probably thought it would be easier to get out. I mean it seems like such an easy decision.

Do all the hard work to get the relationship to work.
Or
Blame the relationship on the issues that made the relationship fail.