There is no sense being able to consider the last option if you haven't done the work.
I wasn't threatening to stuff it into her face when she returned.
But given that this could still go either way, I still need my butt covered and know the limits of what I can do regarding the house; locks; finances. I'm running on three phone consults right now.
Sound L advice and a plan gives me confidence in my position.
But I would prefer the calm discussion like I had with her BF.
Unfortunately, still in the affair (though she sounds a little "shaky" according to BF and at least admitted it to her), her rational capabilities to "hear" what I'm saying is very low. I may need a softer if she comes home soft.
If the call was a ruse to soften me or gain upper hand, I'll need a quick change in tactics. On the fly.
I'm I reading my sitch correctly?
PS Pretty sure their weekend was ruined. Seems BF has talked to W at least twice for quite a while to get as much background as she did. And the original intent was to veil a threat about Privacy to get me to back down/run scared. The end of the convo, by putting it in context of BF's sitch, softened her view quite a bit.
Who knows what's up. But I was honest and calm through the entire thing.
