Well, it's happened, H couldn't take 3 weeks of nc from me & has apparently taken leave of his senses.
I had other pressing matters that kept me occupied, such as;
-teenage son w/substance abuse & other issues.
-helping my mother with a property nightmare that took 2 yrs for our incredible L (and I mean that) to resolve.
Just sat down at the computer to compile information on the list my L asked me to complete & receive a 51 page motion from H, as an attachment to an e-mail, saying he's prepared to file if I don't comply.
Although his "super L" was listed, it was all written by him. There's a reason they just want you to answer the questions during a deposition.
Amazingly, he takes the FC mediator & judge to task, for "buying into what I was selling."
-Wants the courts to order that child transfer takes place @ my house, not 3rd party.
-Daily phone calls, between 5pm & 7pm, with no exception.
-Court ordered private mediation to settle our differences, because the FC one "empowered her."
Anyway, it went on & on..."I knew she'd find out I was living with my GF (A single, 42 yr old woman, who has never had kids of her own) eventually, and she did."
When I recovered from reading all of it, and stopped laughing, I did call him to let him know that I agreed with him, I don't know why it took me so long, but it could never work between us. Please go ahead & file the motion. I have to get going, bye.
That was 4 days ago. I'm now getting phone calls & e-mail everyday, with some excuse for him needing to talk to me.
I've completely lost any attraction I ever had, & am looking forward to moving on to my great life.
