OK, for STARTERS, CD, you need to lose the first-names thing here. This is a PUBLIC message forum, and it's reckless of you to do so. There's a reason we all use things like "OM", "OW", "BFF", etc.
Secondly, don't let this woman stir you up into (sorry ladies) bullchit female DRAMA. First of all (can I say "First of all," after I already said "Secondly"?? ), I'm pretty sure there's no such thing as the "Privacy Act," and ENTIRELY sure there's no law against one private citizen voluntarily writing down the name of an adulterer on a business card and giving it to the betrayed spouse. This is typical paranoid cheating couple's PARANOIA DRAMA, and you need to leave THAT, to the CHEATERS.
You, stick to FACTS. Who-what-when-where, leave the legal stuff for the attorneys, and go out and do some GAL stuff in-between pulling the triggers on your Plan.
Please let me know what I'm missing. I'm not seeing any "problem" here, much less "A BIG ONE!"
Successful DBing is ruled by your BRAINS (and you've got plenty), not by your EMOTIONS.
), I'm pretty sure there's no such thing as the "Privacy Act," and ENTIRELY sure there's no law against one private citizen voluntarily writing down the name of an adulterer on a business card and giving it to the betrayed spouse. This is typical paranoid cheating couple's PARANOIA DRAMA, and you need to leave THAT, to the CHEATERS.
