Mel, my H lied through his teeth to OW about his sitch with me. Told her he was living here but not sleeping with me, yeah right. Told her he was just buying time to leave me when the time was right. When I finally got fed up, I called her and told her everything. It was much easier for her when she could just pretend I was some myth 30 miles away. Once she heard my voice, I could hear her blood drain from her face.
You just stirred things up for them. You'll get some pushback from him but she can't pretend that you don't exsist anymore. That's power.
