If she is lieing to me and manipulating me for money and useing me simple for the purpose of her own benefit. If she is telling me she wants to come back and be a family and that she loves and she really doesn't plan on it and has no feelings for me. If she says that she has been saving herself and could never dream of being with anyone else. That we should have never got divorced and alll she has been doing is making mistakes.And she says all this stuff all the time and means none of it then she is not a good person. I can be in love with a person that is no good. I am just shocked that she is not a good person. i thought alot of her. i thought she was innocent and pure. I really did. i was sure she slept with her husband but no one else. Her mom was inpling that she has had lots of boyfriends and that she only cared about me or acted like it when i was around.