I have been doing well on my goals until this bomb at the end of june. I am just in a state of shock. What is detaching? I have not been taking her calls. I quit answering after sunday. I told her then that she was married and I don't mess with married women. She has called everyday since, I don't answer but i hear her message. she texts me and I read it. She said that she was coming back this weekend but her mother told me today that she has no way to get back here and that she didn't think that she was really planning on coming back to me. Her mom is mad at her but she is not lieing to me. she may not know her daughters plans. I told her that i would take her back and she was going to go back to rehab and MC. But I really dont think that is her plan. Her mom just thinks she is keeping me hanging on incase she needs me.