Okay,

I wrote this letter a few months back when I wanted to expose the affair, please give me your thoughts:

My husband, your brother, your friend, (name removed)has been distant and unhappy. His feelings on unhappiness, according to him center around me, his wife. He has not sought help for himself nor believes he needs to.

Husband has done nothing to support himself nor our marriage doing this time other than:

1 - Engaged in an inappropriate relationship/affair with one of his subordinates. I have emails, credit card bills to support his affair.
2 - Spent evenings with this woman (including our anniversary) and an overnight stay while I was out of town on business. I came home early from trip on a Saturday evening to see husband being dropped off the next morning by the OW
3 - Ridiculed me for gaining weight
4 - Searched the internet for images of "internet porn" which pulls back pictures of girls in little to pretty much underwear or nothing at all.
5 - Deserted me, leaving without me knowing first
6 - Has lied to me consistently about where he has been and who with


Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
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