You aren't out of the woods yet... She WILL call him again several times before this is over... maybe even meet with him in person...
Good to hear your exopsure efforts made a difference.
1. Your wife needs to make ALL accounts online are available to you... Put a spreadsheet togther with the username AND password to every one. YOU do the SAME. You two won't cheat on each other if you don't HIDE anything from one antoher.. the internet is a HUGE source of infidelity recipies. Drop facebook right away for starters.. you are only asking for trouble using that... It is THE NUMBER ONE software product used for infidleity today. 2. Your wife needs to read "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass. She needs to understand how affairs start so she can AVOID one in the future. Once she's done, have her give YOU the details and educate YOU so you BOTH are safe from this very destructive habit. 3. Changing phone numbers and emails so HE can't contact her heps as well... HE needs to see ther eis a VERY CLEAR WALL up to safeguard your marriage.. If she keeps her same number and email it sends HIm a message that she's open to be contacted again... a STRONG message is changing numbers so he CAN't contact her easily. 4. Make sure you BOTH start reading "Relationship Rescue" and other good books like that... 5. Keep AWAY from party friends... being married and planning children means GROWING UP.. if your friends aren't there yet.. steer CLEAR of them. 6. BOTH of you maintain STRONG connections with yoru in laws.. build families from the past into the future... More to come later
Sorry SG, but affairs start up again almost ALL of the time.. they don't end quietly... You have to beat them with a stick... Dont' trust her... Its not her problem, its an addiction and you two BOTH need to work for the next THREE months to make sure she's over him... You can't trust what she is telling you is the fulll truth right now SG, sorry. I know you want to, but oftentimes its only HALF of what you need to know.
