Yes, there is no guarantee that things would turn out any better. My lot in life seems to be relationships with women who do not want sex. That is the evidence, at least.
The frustrating thing for me is knowing that I was plainly explicit about what I was looking for both when we met and then when she went sexless on me. So, she could never say that I did not tell her.
As to airports and this BBS, that is sometimes what it takes to have life work...not ideally, but it works.
The Captain
Maybe its something about you that makes them not want the sex. I'm not blaming you one bit, but trying to figure out for the rest of us who make it into this boat.