The answer to the question of dating is similar to other answers on this board. "You will know when it is right for you!"
I was going out with other women but just casually before our D was final. You are right, it is nice to be around people that truly want to be with you and who enjoy your company. Especially after the beating your self esteem has been taking all of this time.
Now that the D is final I certainly have NO problem with dating someone but I will try to be as honest as possible with that person and I see myself taking things VERY SLOW. Don't worry about what your W finds out or knows or any of that. Do it for you because you want to and you are ready to.
Best of luck!
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10
