Called the bank first thing this a.m. He had used the acct. numbers to change the auto draft for my Hughes net account. Account is locked down and in process of being transfered to another account. I am now after Hughes Net's legal department for allowing someone other than the account holder ( me) to change anything about the account. They denied any record of phone call, said it must have been done on line. I told them they could then supply me with an IP address. Either way, it was illegal, and I'm going to nail somebody for it. I guess you can just go online and put in anyone's random numbers and get your bills paid with their money.
I'm starting to wonder with all his bitching about money, paying lawyers, etc. Either he's went out and ripped himself a new one buying something, or he's just plain lying. He gripped last week that he could't buy the place he wanted to buy because we were still married and I could make a claim.Like!!!!We were able to live comfortably on just his income for the small time I didn't work. Had plenty left over, basically his paycheck on the first paid ALL the bills, and the one on the 15th we free and clear.
Everyday that you wake up and your not in the dark surrounded by silk and crushed velvet, is a good day!
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
Strangely enough, yesterday's email encounter w/husband did not effect my day. His last email to me "Then why did you waste our time sending me the emails . . ." pretty much says it all about him at this time. Planning to stay busy today. Got most of the yard around the house mowed. Today, planning to shave the dog. Please say a prayer for our Border Collie. I simply can't afford to have her groomed. She was adopted after having been abused. I hope this doesn't set off an episode of PTSD on the dog.
Well, she looks less knarly, but the noise of the clippers clearly upset her. I was able to get off the worst of the tangles. To do a real job on her, I may have to slip her an Ambien.( Just kidding, don't report me to the ASPCA) She's not going to when any Dog Shows, that's for sure.
The girls did that to our dog, too, for the same reasons. He won't win any dog shows either, but he looks so cute and was a good boy while the girls messed with him.