The W has never actually said divorce, just separation. But "trust nothing they say, and only 1/2 of what they do" tells me that she's wants out. I think she's just scared of the consequences.
So do I put my BBB (big boy boxers) on and encourage her to move out ASAP? I can manage financially better than I expected,
and Limbo is a sucky place to be.
Your decision, sounds like you've been thinking about your life though, I agree limbo is a "sucky place" to be, I choose to live life "limbo free", but that's just me, what you choose for your life is up to you.
