He is living out of his car - hopping from one "friend" to another. This is NOT a good thing for my S to be exposed to.
One way to look at this is you son will see that for every choice we make there are consequences, good or bad. Right now, you H is dealing with the consequences of his decision. It really is that simple.
My H took very little wehn he left. Most clothes, computer, basically a suitcase full. There's still stuff here, most of it is packed in the garage. Honestly, I really don't think about it much. Something came up recently where he went and got something to take with him. No, he didn't say anything, just got it out of the garage and put it by the door. I made a comment about his taking it and said "It's mine now. You left it. It belongs to me." It was a caution and I made my point. There was no nastiness, nothing mean, just a simple statement.
All I'm saying is, you can do whatever you choose about this, just know what it is you want and how you want to handle yourself.
