I feel like i need to contact WAW

[knightinneed]

Well court is over, and now I need to file a motion for one last date. WAW came right up to me and advised she cannot afford the D. She said why dont we go down and file right now a simple D, since your sister now has custody of DD1.

I told her I will need to talk to my L 1st, and she started to get nasty saying she would seek equity in the home. lol What a farce considering the amount of time we were married.

WAW also badgered my sister in front of CPS worker, and was also acting very mean to us. She was telling my sister that her OM has a gun and she has access to it when my sister mentioned this to her. Very strange indeed, she did ask about her stuff and I advised I would gather it all up and put in the garage for her.

When we finally went into court, the judge ruled for my sister to have custody, and I also presented evidence of her breaking no contact.

The judge seemed puzzled by this and stated that No Contact was not in affect and hasnt been since the 2nd hearing. She stated that unless she writes it in the order after every hearing that the time limitation will run out since this is family court.

WAW's atty asked that it be kept, and the Judge said if I felt threatened or felt like she wanted to " Lure me into a compelling situation " then I should contact the criminal court and let them know she broke no - contact there.

It appears no contact in a family court is nothing more then a joke. Well, i dunno I guess I just disagree with the judge on this one.

WAW definitely noticed my weight loss, and i caught her staring at me a lot - because i look so much different now. I guess my sitch is still hanging out there, and well it maybe time for me to file for D and get this over with.

In the back of my mind tho, i still wonder if it could be turned around?