He is no longer attracted to me. THe OW has a huge hold on him. I am trying to keep up hope and faith, but it is difficult. I feel like my H gave up by syaing, "I am not happy with you and I will never be". The longer we are apart without any movement in the recon direction, the more discouraged I become.

My H is very private and very protective of his image. I know he also watched internet porn of which I confronted him with as well, but he denied it and we were the only 2 people living in the house.

So, if I were to expose the affair, he would make people think that I was being irrational and that it was not true. He is pretty convincing. This is one of the reasons, I am not sure if he will ever come around or to his senses. He says he is unhappy and wants to be happy. He feels like he stayed around for so long because he did not want to hurt me and that if took courage for him to leave. Oh, what do I do....


Last edited by ShellDoll; 07/16/10 05:03 PM.
Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison