Baby born, separated, WH moving overseas for OW

[newmama]

Mum is great. It all feels normal. In fact, feels like old times. Which feels a bit boring (what does that say?). One time I completely lose myself and call him 'babe'. Cripes!!! I hope he thinks I have said "baby", talking about ours

.

I have beeeeeeen there too, gals! The "old times" feeling a bit boring when he was there. I don't know if it is because we didn't have them, wanted them so bad, and remembered the times together as wonderful because we missed the basic stuff. But then we get the basic stuff with our WHs (in the present) and it is a let down...because there is no romantic relationship behind it??And we are not the happy family we hoped for? Just a disappointment maybe....

And I TOTALLY called stbxh "Honey" one time! But it was obvious! We just ignored it. One time I said "she likes honey" or something and stbxh said "yes?" like he thought I called him honey.

Good job not pursuing...give that space! Excellent job having a conflict free day!