Re-Connecting

[Fightingforher]

I've made plans tonight to go out with some friends. The W will have our son and she told me she is going out tomorrow night. Reading other posts it's been encouraged to start dating. It's been 4 months since the D bomb was dropped and she has now had 2 OM in that 4 months.

Not sure how I feel about dating, nervous, scared.... I need to start thinking about moving forward and start with some casual dates. It will be nice to get some or any female attention at this point.

Is it too early to start dating? My D should be final in about a month and god willing W will be moved out by the end of the month.

Thoughts????