Yesterday my W comes home and asks me if I want to go to the store with her. On our way to the store she turns off my radio and tells me that she's thinking lately about the two of us getting back together.

I'm absolutely floored and caught off gaurd about this. She starts talking about finances, and says how she's worried that we wont be on the same page about spending/saving money.

She said she's been thinking about what I said way back about us not knowing if we could make it unless we live together and try. She says that she thinks that this may be true.

We talked at great detail about things. I still don't know what to make of this. It still isn't something set in stone, but the fact that she's even considering it amazes me.

I was ready to move on, and was making all the steps to do so. Now i don't know what's going to happen. I'm sure we will press on with the direction we've been going because she's obviously still unsure. However just last week she didn't give us a chance.

She claims this has to do with the time and sapce she's been asking for. She may not acknowlege or think about what I say at the moment, but she says she does eventually digest and process.

I just really don't know what to do or think at this point.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept