How I can identify with that remark. One I often stated about any counselor I had. With my charming vivacious wit and wiles I often steered the course of my direction. Oh yes.. and that inherent obstinacy, too
Some counselors are better than others. Different counselors work better for different people.
And I think it's more about learning and trusting than it is about being led. And half of it is learning how to trust yourself.
Why do I harp on this? Because of the photos of you in Switzerland with the family. The pain in your smile said it all.